Thomas Spence, Jr., 92

Jan 25, 2020

Retired New Bedford District Fire Chief Thomas Spence, Jr., 92, of Dartmouth and formerly of New Bedford passed away Saturday, January 18, 2020 in the New Bedford Jewish Convalescent Home. He was the husband of the late Lillian “Lil” (Cooke) Spence.

Born in Fall River, a son of Thomas and Erna Marie (Jurs) Spence, he grew up in the Southend of New Bedford before moving to Dartmouth in 1970.

He was an active member of St. Martin’s Episcopal Church serving as a greeter and member of the Vestry. Mr. Spence graduated from the Greater New Bedford Regional Vocational High School. He then went on to serve in the United States Navy during World War II.

He was a third degree Mason at the Paskamansett Lodge AF & AM, a member of the YMCA, a member of the International Association of Fire Fighters and a member of the Washington Club.

In 1988, he retired as a District Fire Chief after spending 37 years on the New Bedford Fire Department. He especially enjoyed spending time with his family sharing meals and holidays together. After the passing of his wife, he spent the next ten years with his close friends at Dunkin’ Donuts every morning and afternoon.

He also enjoyed spending time at the Dartmouth Council on Aging, watching New England sports on TV, jazz music, and movies especially old westerns.

He is survived by two daughters, Carolyn A. Burnham and her husband Chuck of South Dartmouth, Lori A. Spence of Walpole; a son, Thomas Spence, III and his wife Cynthia of South Dartmouth; four grandchildren, Cheryl A. Spillane of Kingston, Jessica L. Melching of Needham, Alyson B. Gangi of Dartmouth and Mark T. Spence of NJ; eight great grandchildren, Patrick and Matthew Spillane, William and Lillian Gangi, Cara, Libby and Morgan Spence, and Paige Melching; his companion Janis Smith; and several nieces and nephews. He was the brother of the late Ernest and Erna Spence and Karen Morrow.

His funeral will be Thursday, January 23, 2020 at 10 a.m. in St. Martin’s Episcopal Church, County St., New Bedford. Burial will follow in Rural Cemetery. Donations in his memory may be made to St. Martin’s Episcopal Church, 136 Rivet St., New Bedford, MA 02744 or the Dartmouth Council on Aging, 628 Dartmouth St., Dartmouth, MA 02748. For online tribute/directions, visit waring-sullivan.com.